Smiling is beautiful, an expression of happiness and affection.
But why do women always need to look happy anyway?
Telling a woman to smile happens, mostly for two reasons:
caring or controlling
While the first might be well-intended, neither will probably be well-received. On the other hand, a lot of men view smiling as subservient, weak and vulnerable. So, telling a woman to smile might be pushing her back into a traditional stereotype. In our society we are so used to women smiling at us from every advertisement that it is almost disturbing when this is not the case.
Behind every woman is so much more than the smile we all expect. Let’s make that visible.
"Einprägsam war vor allem, wie schwer es ist, nicht automatisch zu lächeln. Man lernt schon von klein auf „in die Kamera zu lächeln“ und das nicht nur als Frau."
"Ich kann diese Erfahrung, mit ihrem inneren und äußeren Ausdruck zu spielen jeder Frau empfehlen."
"Erst war ich erstaunt, dann habe ich mich wirklich betrachtet, also im Sinne von nicht nur angeschaut. Der Prozess an sich hat mich fasziniert. Aus dem anfänglichen Unbekannten heraus, neugierig auf mich selbst zu sein."
Who are we?
David is a photographer and has been working freelance for several years. Besides the daily business he realizes projects that are close to his heart.
The basic idea for DO NOT SMILE. comes from David’s head. In his way, he always has the task to show people, and here especially women, smiling, winning and friendly. Here there is a disproportion to the image of what is required of men.
This is not only a social and societal injustice, but also ensures a focus on smiling and a non-existence of other feelings in our daily perception.
From this emerged the idea to photograph portraits on which woman may show everything and every feeling, every expression is welcome, except for, this one time, a smile.
Right now we are planning shootings in other cities in Germany and developing the concept for a book and the planned exhibition.
Join US!
If you are interested in becoming part of the project, please contact us at contact@donotsmile.de.
We will let you know the dates for the next shootings as soon as they are planned. You have to plan about one hour of your time. You will receive all further information by email and you are also welcome to ask any further questions in advance.